It is healthier, in any case, to write for the adults one's children will become than for the children one's 'mature' critics often are.
My kids seem to be more mature and older than I am now somehow. They've gotten ahead of me somehow. But they're very patient with me.
Self centered leaders manipulate when they move people for personal benefit. Mature leaders motivate by moving people for mutual benefit.
Jeans fit the mature male one of two ways, both dirigible in nature. You make a public impression that's either Hindenburg or Goodyear blimp.