It is an easy thing for one whose foot is on the outside of calamity to give advice and to rebuke the sufferer.
It is a bit embarrassing to have been concerned with the human problem all one's life and find at the end that one has no more to offer by way of advice than 'try to be a little kinder.'
I don't like to give advice. I like to give people information because everyone's life is different, and everyone's journey is different.
He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other.